This is probably one of the biggest hurdles for me. For years
I’ve re-learnt how to smile to hide my poor-conditioned front teeth; turn
up the corners, keep the front lip over the teeth, turn away, hold up my hand
even. But now that the teeth have been replaced and they look good, although
maybe not as
natural as natural teeth but it’s better than what it was, I can
actually smile again. But first I need to overcome the old thought pattern.
It seems strange that I have to re-learn something that
is so natural in human existence. If you notice ancient civilisations and even
undiscovered tribes when first found, a smile means the same thing. We’re never
taught to smile. We feel something inside and it expresses itself as a smile.
At the moment this new smile feels unnatural, but maybe I’m
being self-conscious. When something funny happens I can just laugh, the
thought of hiding the smile occurs and I’m able to ignore it and laugh. It’s
quite liberating actually; to not have to worry all the time about something as
simple as a smile or laugh. I guess in time the thought won’t even happen, but
for now it’s just another step on the road to full recovery.
They say it only takes twenty-eight days to overcome old
thought patterns, or to learn something new. So I guess with three weeks of
wearing dentures I’m almost there. If you’ve just gotten dentures, hang in there.
We all improve the more we do something.

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